The struggle of socializing when you hate superficial bios

Hey. As a textbook introvert, I find modern socializing incredibly draining. I’ve tried a few standard platforms, but writing a catchy bio, picking the perfect photos, and making that fake “hey, what’s up” small talk feels so exhausting. I caught myself thinking: why can’t we just connect through our actual minds? I wish there was a private social app for introverts where you could just write down your current thoughts, reflections, or a quote that inspires you, and the system would match you with someone based entirely on that mindset. Does something like this exist, where you don’t even have to use your real name if you don’t want to?